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The bait headline got you, didn't it? Yeah, I dislike such sensational stuff just as much as you do. Take that, upworthy.com!
Seriously, the titular nut is me. That's how off-putting I am, firing
off smart-alecky replies when Christian friends approach me for a
listening ear. I wonder how many people I've driven away from genuine
and lasting friendship because of my behaviour.
This morning's Our Daily Bread
reading is a timely reminder of how Christians can quote verses out of
context, and sometimes this is disastrous on friendships, especially
when a person is in anguish and the last thing he wants is someone
throwing verses at him.
"God never gives us more than we can handle." Do you hear this often
from Christian friends who are trying to comfort people in grief?
Perhaps you were at the receiving end during a low point in your life?
Well, this quote is not found in most English translations of the Bible.
The foundation for this quote is 1 Corinthians 10:13, "There hath no temptation
taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will
not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the
temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it."
Reading that verse in its context, Paul was addressing the issue of
temptation, not suffering. God provides a way out of temptation, not
necessarily suffering.
We may view temptations
as ethical cross-roads, with moral choices to be made. Very often,
suffering may not present such choices. An appropriate response when a
friend in anguish draws near is perhaps that suggested by Paul in his
letter to the Romans, "...weep with them that weep." When Lazarus died
the first time, my Lord Jesus wept with the dead man's family. Surely He
knew that He was to raise Lazarus back to life in a while, but He still
wept with Mary and Martha. If you have a friend who is suffering now, I
pray you will be there with him. We are called to love, not judgement.
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